Our Family Everywhere

Khap Khun Ma Krup, Mun Thai!

Our flight home was uneventful. That's a major coup. We like to fly Singapore Airlines first and foremost because nothing goes wrong. You can rely on a smooth check-in, an

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The Space Between

We are to stay in our rooms and not come out until morning. We are entitled to 10 total meals – 2 per person which we can order anytime and

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Thailand In Their Words

I'm sitting at a desk on the 23rd floor of the Novotel Pratunam overlooking central Bangkok on our last night in Thailand. This is the same hotel we stayed in

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Coming Full Circle

The spell was cast using a mix of a glass walled beachfront bungalow, the incredible colors in the water at Ao Vongduan (arguably Ko Samet’s most beautiful beach cove) and

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Nothing Stays On Samet

Greece is a country steeped in history. Everywhere you step, no matter how insignificant seeming has history to it. Even our beloved Patmos is known for being home to St

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These Fishies Love Me!

"They love me! These fishies love me!" Ailyn said while giggling loudly. "I've been petting them. I just pet that one on its poop hole!" We were standing in the

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When Pizza Sends Out For You

One thing you can count on in Thailand is that few things go exactly to plan. Sometimes it's because something that should be open isn't. Or someone showed up whenever

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The Samet Scene

On quiet, innocuous looking Ko Samet, there's a lot happening on the beach. It's not the crazy parties and not-so-secret drug dealing of Ko Phagnan and Ko Phi Phi. It's

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Sawasdee Pi Mai – Part 3

The last day of the year was blissfully incongruent with the rest of 2021. A year with COVID, stress, home learning, returns to school with numerous modifications, a new company

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Never Can Say Goodbye

Cities are a collection of spaces – profound and mundane; public and personal; holy and profane; safe and scary; familiar and unknown; inspiring and disheartening; beautiful and ugly; comfortable and

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Elephants For Water

At 8 am, Ailyn begged to cancel our plans and go back to sleep. While no one else agreed per se, all were indifferent at best. We have gone from

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Hunter-Gatherer

Having such a large, comfortable condo has changed the way we operate. Instead staying in for dinner once in awhile, we have eaten at home every night. Not that we've

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The Secular And The Sublime

Humans are a storytelling animal and through the use of stories,  we create contexts and meanings that allow us to cooperate and live together. Often, stories have variations that link

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Don’t Steal Her Sunshine

"I don't even feel soft like Jello anymore!" Ailyn wailed as she had a mini-breakdown on the steps leading out of the Rachadamri Skytrain station. Though we hadn't spent most

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Bad Beliefs

"Wait, so this isn't America?!" Ailyn exclaimed more than an hour after our arrival in Singapore and at least 20 minutes into our very Singaporean  breakfast of kaya toast and

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Coming Out Of The Dark

Who knew we would be grounded for almost two and a half years? We came back from our glorious summer in Israel and Greece with the audacious intent to do

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Via Vienna

"Sennen, you have such a great attitude this morning,  I really appreciate it!" I told Sennen at 4:15 am in our Athens Airport hotel room. "No problem, Daddy! It's because

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Getting My Story Straight

One of the strange things about an island is that you're either on it, or not. When you leave there's no gradual goodbye or change as you drive away. You

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Beware The Ides of August

"As we get toward the 15th of August, things really fill up. That's why you see so many Greek tourists here, they come to Patmos because it's a holy island.

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Can Hippopotamuses Drown?

"Daddy, can hippopotamuses drown?" Sennen called from the swimming pool. "Because they live in water and can swim under water, so can they drown?" We spent Emily's last day in

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Anxiety

Numerous emails from Sennen's school and the school district have been filling our inboxes. We have at least three online platforms to register for or update. It's the replacement of

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Fifty Shades Of Blue

"You made him cry!" I said to Emily at the end of dinner while Matheus and the kids were exploring a nearby tree that was just begging to be climbed

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Quality Of Life

We wake up between 8:30 and 9:30 each morning. The kids usually get up earlier – between 7:00 and 8:30 and read books on the iPad. They have bulldozed through

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Finely Aged

"Matheus, how many days are in a year?" Sennen asked. "There are 365 days, Sennen"  "Daddy, can a person live for more or less than a million days?" "Less, Sennen.

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Friends Again

Not only was the ferry was running about 25 minutes late but it was unclear where it would pull-in. A low-end cruise ship that was small enough to be allowed

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A Time For Smoke

"Yes, you can light Greek coffee (grounds) on fire like this. It's very weird that it lights on fire because Greek coffee is the healthiest in the world for you,"

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Peak Of The Season

It's a nice 82 out – not terribly warmer than it has been for the past month – but the humidity has increased to 65%, making things a little stickier

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Tempted to Abandon

We're spending today at the swimming pool at Pleiades Bar and Restaurant overlooking Sapsilla Bay – a gorgeous turquoise cove with a small and sparsely used beach. While the kids

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She’s Far From The Shallow Now

Travel changes us all  - sometimes profoundly, sometimes imperceptibly. Every trip we see growth in our children – they come home different people than they started, like they go through

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Dancing The Night Away

"Guys, last night was the best night of this entire trip!" Ailyn exclaimed this morning. It was surprising for a girl who spent the first hour of dinner laying her

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Boomeranging Back

"I don't want to go anywhere…. I hate this… I don't feel good…" Sennen said repeatedly yesterday. Today, he didn't want to go his favorite pizza restaurant, the beach or

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Irrational Economics

Some light Sergio Mendes covers were playing loud enough to be noticeable – the first time a restaurant in Patmos wasn't playing mild, indescript Greek music in the background. Giant

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Insatiable Curiosity

"Daddy, I just read about four countries: Japan, Mexico, Italy and China! Most of Italy has farmland and it's well known for its food, clothes and beautiful land. And Japan

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Nauseating Freedom

By 1 pm, it felt as though we had never left and the fact that we began our day yesterday in Turkey and this morning in Samos was just a

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Talking Turkey

From our new apartment-hotel unit, we have a fantastic view of the Antalya harbor, hills, colorful apartment houses, Ottoman era fortress, the Kusadasi sign (a Hollywood sign knock-off) and a

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Squaring the Triangle

"What, you have something valuable in there?" the Turkish boat crewman said to Matheus as he removed his passport from his suitcase before leaving it with the "checked" baggage. Matheus

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A Time To Reap

The Allied invasion of Patmos began last week. As we had been warned, mid-July to early August is Patmos' peak season. The French seem to have taken hold of the

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Empire State of Mind

Jerusalem, Istanbul, Athens, Thessaloniki, Skala, Heraklion, Nicosia, Lipsi Town, Dayton, New York, Orlando – what do they have in common? Substantive Greek populations. We easily understand communities like New York, Dayton

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A Little Tripsy to Lipsi

Until now, it has been a distant outline seen across the water from Skala and Grikos – some hills rising up from the sea with the same light brown color

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Addicted to Greek Mythology

"I'm think I'm addicted to Greek Mythology!" Sennen said last night and again this morning. Here he merges two concepts that have been on his busy mind: Greek mythology and

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Scale

By our count, there are at least eight bakeries on Patmos. Like the tavernas here, each has its distinguishing specialties around a core set of items that are the same.

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A Longer Leash

"No, mommy, no…. give me one more chance….one more chance…one more chance!!!"  Emily and I take a sick pleasure when it's not our kid. We just looked up from our

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The New Normal

"How many years have we been gone now?" Ailyn asked as we left for the beach.  While we have been gone from home just over a month and in Patmos

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Living With Less

Patmos – and largely Greek – business hours are usually 9 to noon and 5 to 11 daily, except Sundays with some minor variations and exceptions (like cafes   and

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Building Bridges

Kampos Beach has nothing but swimming-pool calm water with shallow water that stretches on endlessly. I have never bothered to walk far enough to see when it becomes deep enough

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Assumptions

Today, our landlord/host Victor came knocked on our door in the late morning. He very courteously wanted to find out what time it might be convenient for us to allow

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Return To The Blue Lagoon

"Happy Birthday, America!" Sennen yelled. "Happy Birthday, America!" Ailyn echoed while swimming in tourmaline blue waters of a cove of nearby Tiganakia island. They had tried yelling it from the

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Finding The Energy

The European Union's periphery is both figurative and literal. If you think of the Iberian Peninsula hanging off the far west and Greece hanging off the Southeast, these areas have

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The Value Of Time

One of the great parts of staying somewhere for awhile is that everyday, mundane tasks become adventures. This morning, we planned to get up at our leisure, have breakfast and

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Divide To Unite

There's no nice way to say it – our children have been fussier and whinier than usual. Ailyn is having infrequent – but uncharacteristic tantrums where she stomps her feet

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The Heart of Patmos

Had we not spotted the man who looked just like Nicola, the whole thing might not have happened at all. As we were driving back down the narrow road to

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Thank You Too

Sennen had heard the story too many times. In 2010, Nicola, the owner of our studio apartment hotel, told us we must try the BEST pizza on Patmos, or perhaps

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Nine Years

Nine years ago today, Emily and I began our journey together as a married couple. That journey has comprised so many journeys and adventures – mental, emotional and actual travel.

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May The Blue Star Be Our Guide

Modern Athens lives incredibly intimately with its ancient past. Unlike Jerusalem which has a clear division between Old City and Modern Jerusalem, in Athens you can be walking down an

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My Israel

My parents generation grew up making the case for Israel. Israel was born at the same time they were and fought for its life just to make it to its

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The Tidal Wave

What makes murder so heinous is that it is not just a crime against the victim, but against everyone connected to the victim, not to mention all the possibilities that

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Miracles in Jerusalem

We gathered as a family with little more than a table, a Sefer Torah (Torah Scroll) and some prayer books. It was a simple morning service except for two important

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Digging Into The Past

Coming from the Los Angeles area – or really anywhere on the West Coast of the United States of America means having no depth of history. Houses from the 1920's

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Bringing the Dead To Life

The Dead Sea is about 30% salt and minerals. Until the 1980's it was believed that no living organism inhabited its waters, until a microalgae was discovered. Israel sold research

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Us Them You Me Same

Noah Yuval Harari is a Professor of History at Hebrew University in Jerusalem. He has written three recent books that have become worldwide phenomena - Sapiens, Homo Deus, and 21 Lessons for the

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Cousins

"I go wherever Haydie goes" – Sennen "Where's Bailey? Can I go with Bailey?" – Ailyn "Bailey, put Ailyn down, you're going to hurt your back, Sweetie!" – All the

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Galilean Surprises

Ailyn stood on the side of the road wearing only her shoes and socks while everyone fluttered around figuring out what to do with her watermelon juice vomit soaked clothes

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Reclaiming Israel

Chaim Weizmann came to fame not as Israel's first President – that was later – but through his scientific breakthrough of using the bacterium Clostridium acetobutylicum to generate acetone – a key

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Many Things In One Package

"We have a broad range of interests on this bus," my father-in-law, Jack explained to our tour guide Dina. It seemed fairly obvious at the time given the range of

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Eyes Wide Shut

"Mommy, Daddy, is it morning yet?" Ailyn asked, standing at the foot of our bed at 2:30 am.  "No, sweetie – it's many hours until morning and we need to

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Ushered Into The Promised Land

"Daddy, this guy knows everything!" Sennen whispered about our VIP arrival liaison, Yoni as we left the baggage area of the David Ben Gurion Airport. Last time Emily and I

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Summer of Adventure

"I don't think we'll be back here for five years," Emily predicted as we headed to the ferry dock on Patmos. "Five years?! That seems too long!" I responded. Really,

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A Really Different Country

"Thailand? Well, young man, now you've seen and know not to take America for granted, right?" the Customs officer said to Sennen who didn't understand what the man meant. "He

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Back To The Gypsy That I Was…

Driving along Highway 4 from Khao Lak to Phuket International Airport, once past the tourist heart of Khao Lak, you get a nice view of rural Southern Thailand. Farming, simple

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Nothing Lak-ing

The first day of the year was also our last full day in Khao Lak. Emily awoke with the the bittersweet tone about the day she gets when something great

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Sawasdee Pi Mai, Again!

It's not often we get to start start and end the year in Thailand – but in 2018, we did. Our family rung 2018 in with Arielle in Ko Chang

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Ku Ta Da

We came upon Kokulo by accident two days ago while walking around the Hat Bang Niang area of Khao Lak. Due to a local ordinance passed almost a year ago,

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Delightful Confusion

"I LOVE IT!!!" Ailyn exclaimed after trying a sip of Emily's beer. "I LOVE IT!!!" after a sip of coffee "I LOVE IT!" after her first sip of Thai iced

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The Foreigner Is Here To Help

My masseuse clearly paid attention in class – likely taught by monks. She was a by-the-book traditionalist like my high school French teacher. Mrs Myer used to say, "I'm here

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Our Biggest Adventure, Ever!

"This is our biggest adventure ever!" Sennen said after we waded through a long, often low-ceilinged cave the led to an emptied-out lagoon in the middle of a limestone island.

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A Sangthaew Of Our Own

You've been in Thailand awhile when you become indignant about the price of a $15 taxi. In Thai terms, it's practically scandalous – although if you were trying to get

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Finding Green Garden

"I can't believe we're going to Khao Lak today! This is going to be amazing!" said the boy who has never been to Khao Lak before. I think we all

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Bangkok New and Old

"Daddy, I think we have the best family? Are we the best family in the world?" "That's so great, Sennen! I think we're a great family and I'm glad you

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Bangkok Is Booming

Bangkok is booming. With every visit, its economic ascendancy becomes clearer. More new malls – when you couldn't imagine another one could even be needed – and yet every one

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Hanukkah and Ayutthaya

Hanukkah literally means dedication or consecration and in the context of the events around the holiday, it really means rededication. When American Jews talk about Hanukkah – especially with children

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A Grand First Day

Why did the king need so many buildings? Why did he need to pray? Why did he need to pray so much? Why did he need to build a palace

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Sentenced To Transportation

To enjoy the rewards, we must first pay the price upfront – Los Angeles to Tokyo to Singapore to Bangkok – the longest flight sequence of the trip. Singapore Airlines

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Landing

The biggest drawback to our big international trips is the return. Besides the typical "the vacation is over" blues most people experience, the long series of flights home is tiring

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Two Nights In Bangkok

Although it was just 10am, the sun was setting on our time on Ko Chang. The minibus loaded with a driver, the five of us and 10 bags and a

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Sawasdee Pi Mai!

In the middle of my beachside massage, I felt someone lean over my body and arms wrap around me. "Sawasdee Pi Mai!!!" my smiling masseuse from two days ago said.

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Deep In The Gulf Of Siam

We're doing something right when we're having a discussion with our children about the different colors of blue in the water. As our boat took us away from the pier,

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Ethics of the Island

Our kids partied hearty under the Ko Chang moon. Siam Huts, the bungalows, restaurant and bar at the south corner of the sandy section of Lonely Beach setup a dance

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Transitions

When I lived in Bangkok, Singapore, Hsinchu (Taiwan) and Taipei – the tropical sun beat against the concrete walls of the structures, making its energy known despite shades and air

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The Beach

When a couple of friends urged me to go to Thailand for the first time, one naturally told me to watch "The Beach" with Leonardo diCaprio which was filed on

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Arai Gor Dai

Arai Gor Dai is one of my favorite Thai phrases. It is a versatile phrase that means roughly, "Whatever works" or even just "Whatever…". The phrase captures a key component

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Same Same, But Different

There's no word for similar in Thai. There's same and different. So the closest thing to our concept of similar is literally, "Same but not same" which is most commonly

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The Tiger Family Trip

"It's the Tiger Family Trip!" Ailyn sang at the top of her lungs as we our Tuk-Tuk zipped through the back alleys and side roads of Chiang Mai tonight. While

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Larger Than Life

We went from "Dad, can you give the elephant this banana for me?" while Sennen stood about 10 feet beyond the elephant's nasal reach to "I'm an expert elephant feeder!"

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Incarnations

"Let's have a conversation. Let's have a full conversation. I want to have a conversation about my lives before. You want to hear about my lives before?" "Sennen, first we

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The Path Ahead

On December 17th – two days from now – we'll depart Los Angeles for parts well-known: Thailand with an 8.5 hour layover in Singapore. These are places Emily and I

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Catching Up

On June 28, 2011, I wrote the last line of the blog that cataloged our one-year, around-the-world honeymoon – Our First Year Everywhere. I felt that once that story was

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